“It's tough because I see that it's upsetting her…”: A qualitative exploration of parents’ perceptions of talking with their adolescents about having a visible difference

Zelihić, Deniz; Williamson, Heidi; Kling, Johanna; Feragen, Kristin B

Abstract

Many adolescents live with a visible difference that affects their lives in profound ways, but studies investigating parents’ perceptions of raising appearance issues during conversations with their adolescent are lacking. As part of a larger study exploring the effectiveness of a web-based intervention (YP Face IT), semi-structured interviews were conducted with 18 parents of adolescents with a visible difference. Thematic analysis revealed four overarching themes: (1) Conversational settings; (2) Understanding adolescents’ feelings and thoughts; (3) Providing parental guidance and encouragement; and (4) When the dialogue becomes difficult. Results showed that parents resorted to specific settings when instigating conversations about appearance, such as when their adolescents expressed a need for emotional care, were perceived to be upset, or whilst managing their condition. The choice of setting was also important as some parents generally felt uncomfortable raising appearance issues with their adolescent, for fear of fueling appearance concerns. Results further suggest that open communication can enable parents to stay informed about their adolescent's psychosocial adjustment to a visible difference. These results stress the need to make available support to facilitate open communication about appearance-related topics between parents and adolescents.

• Journal Article Type: Article
• Acceptance Date: May 20, 2021
• Online Publication Date: May 27, 2021
• Publication Date: 2021-09
• Deposit Date: Sep 29, 2021
• Publicly Available Date: Sep 30, 2021
• Journal: Body Image
• Print ISSN: 1740-1445
• Publisher: Elsevier
• Peer Reviewed: Peer Reviewed
• Volume: 38
• Pages: 306-316
• DOI: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.bodyim.2021.05.006
• Public URL: https://uwe-repository.worktribe.com/output/7412203