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An interview study exploring clients' experiences of receiving therapeutic support for family estrangement in the UK

Blake, Lucy; Rouncefield‐Swales, Alison; Bland, Becca; Carter, Bernie

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Authors

Alison Rouncefield‐Swales

Becca Bland

Bernie Carter



Abstract

Many people experience estrangement from a family member, which is broadly understood to refer to negative relationships that are characterised by little or no contact. However, little is known about how people cope with family estrangement. To address this gap, interviews were conducted with 46 participants who identified as being estranged from a parent/sibling and/or child and having sought therapeutic support for this experience. The participants were recruited from a UK-based charity that supports individuals experiencing family estrangement. The participants had a range of experiences of therapeutic support, with most (N=31, 67%) having paid for private therapy. The data were analysed using thematic analysis, and three themes were generated: (1) finding the missing qualities in estranged family relationships: warmth, validation and safety; (2) speaking the unspoken: addressing the causes and consequences of estrangement; and (3) learning relational skills: improving the relationship with oneself and with others. When the causes of estrangement were addressed in the context of a safe therapeutic relationship, participants learned strategies to improve the relationships they had both with themselves and with others. When participants experienced a cold or unresponsive therapeutic relationship, and the causes and consequences of estrangement were not adequately addressed or understood, counselling was experienced as unhelpful. Individuals who seek therapeutic support for family estrangement have specific needs. Training around these needs and the causes and consequences of estrangement could be beneficial to helping professionals and the clients with whom they work.

Journal Article Type Article
Acceptance Date Nov 22, 2022
Online Publication Date Dec 12, 2022
Publication Date Mar 1, 2023
Deposit Date Dec 13, 2022
Publicly Available Date Dec 13, 2022
Journal Counselling and Psychotherapy Research
Print ISSN 1473-3145
Electronic ISSN 1746-1405
Publisher Wiley
Peer Reviewed Peer Reviewed
Volume 23
Issue 1
Pages 105-114
DOI https://doi.org/10.1002/capr.12603
Keywords Psychiatry and Mental health; Applied Psychology; Clinical Psychology; Estrangement, Family, Intergenerational relationships, Qualitative, Sibling relationships
Public URL https://uwe-repository.worktribe.com/output/10252893
Publisher URL https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/capr.12603
Additional Information Received: 2022-09-15; Accepted: 2022-11-22; Published: 2022-12-12

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